Too many times I try to help people. I give it my all and when the help is not accepted (worse failed), I take it personally. As A Christian I try my best to always be a server. The thing is as a server, I can only go so far…WE CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH. In the end it is the other party’s responsibility to what whatever they are looking for. I can help, but i cannot make you happy when you find what you are looking for.